Thursday, March 11, 2010
Marriage and Money: The Talk That Might Save Your Relationship
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Help! I need a $2 favor.
I have 100 guests and a $200 budget for wedding favors. I don't want something tacky that does not reflect my personal style. Is it possible to make or buy elegant favors that will not cost a fortune?

The Custom Candy Bag
There are few things more delightful for your wedding guests than a sweet treat for the ride home. Add a twist with a custom label.
The Cost: Less than $2 per favor
The Plan: 1. Design your custom label on a website like My Own Labels. In many cases, you can add your names, monogram, and wedding date to these beautiful designs at a rate of $35 for 100 labels. Add $4.95 for regular shipping. The site does not appear to charge sales tax, however I will add 8.25% sales tax to keep it realistic. Let's round the cost of the labels up to $50, and we are ready to find bags.
2. My Own Labels, mentioned above, has a variety of cellophane and paper bags, but we want to keep our options open and our purses closed (okay, opened slightly). Check out a party supply store such as Oriental Trading Company. You have a variety of bags to choose from including the Cello Bag Favor with Charm at a rate of $3.99 per dozen (you will need 9 packs). You will also want to purchase either twist ties or pretty ribbon, and white or colored tissue paper for use in Step 4. This Step can be accomplished for $70. Since your guests will not be very happy if you hand them an empty, albeit beautifully decorated bag, let's go candy shopping.
3. Don't feel that you have to buy hoity-toity chocolates that you can't pronounce. Head to Walmart, Costco and the like, and buy bulk packages of Tic Tacks, miniature Snicker bars, miniature Skittles, etc. The best part is that you will be serving candy that people actually like to eat. Forty bucks ($40) should be more than enough to satisfy every sweet tooth. Now it is time to put it all together.
4. This is a great way to spend a lunch break or get in a good gossip session with your gal pals. Place your custom label on the bag. Wrap one serving of candy in tissue paper (2 to 4 pieces depending on your candy selection and size of bag). Add wrapped candy to the bag and close with the twist tie or pretty ribbon. Voila. Class without a ton of cash.
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Friday, February 26, 2010
Seven Things You Don’t Want to Throw Away After Your Wedding
Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. There are several items that you will want to keep to tie up loose ends and to preserve your memories:
- Contracts. The obligations of some vendors do not end on the wedding day. Your photographer is a great example. After the wedding, much of his work has just begun. The contract provides information on the prints, photo albums, copyrights, etc.
- Written speeches and vows. Photos are not the only way to preserve your wedding day memories. Keep written speeches (i.e. Unity Candle ceremony) and personal vows for your memory book. Add them to a picture frame for an inexpensive memento.
- Address lists. Chances are it took a lot of effort and phone calls to the parents to compile contact information for all of your family, friends, co-workers, and so on. This information can be an invaluable resource in the future. Think baby shower, housewarming, or new business venture, just to name a few instances where the address list could come in handy.
- Body measurements. This may seem a little sadistic, but many women like to keep a mental note of their wedding day weight. What better way to remember your wedding day physique than the measurements taken for your gown?
- Paper goods. This includes save the dates, invitations, announcements, programs, and the like. These may seem like a source of clutter the day after your wedding, but soon they will be a quick and convenient memento of your big day. Do not assume that your mother kept all of these items for you. Make sure you retain your own copies.
- Specialty undergarments. In order to pull off that flawless look, many brides enlist a variety of techniques, such as Spanx to trim the tummy or gel bra pads to add a little extra up top. Even if these items are unnecessary or undesirable for everyday use, hold on to them. Another family wedding or cocktail party is always around the corner and you will be ready.
- Dress. While you might not toss your dress out with yesterday’s newspaper, stuffing your gown in the back of an unventilated closet or a musty attic can cause damage. If you plan to keep your dress, research preservation services and make plans to take your dress as soon as possible. There are wedding dress preservation kits available for the do-it-yourself bride. You can also sell your dress through a consignment shop or online. Finally, you can donate your dress to an organization like Making Memories Breast Cancer Foundation, which grants final wishes to women and men suffering from terminal breast cancer.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Valentine’s On TV
I hope your Valentine’s Day Weekend with your sweetie was filled with romance, flowers, chocolates, and—most importantly—some great Valentine’s themed programming.
On Lifetime: lots of romantic movies including the classic Pretty Woman starring Richard Gere and Julia Roberts. What is it about this movie that makes it as sweet and endearing today as it was in 1990? Maybe it is the scene in the elevator when Edward and Vivian are on their way to the opera and Vivian tells Edward “In case I forget to tell you later, I had a really good time tonight.” Perhaps it is the end of the movie when Edward climbs the stairs to Vivian’s apartment, grabs her in his arms, and asks her "so what happens after he climbs up and rescues her?" Mix in a couple of steamy love scenes, and even in spite of the network edits and commercial breaks, Pretty Woman was still entertaining and inspiring.
On Oxygen: a Snapped marathon. For those of you who don’t know, Snapped is a true crime series about female killers. When I am not feeling squeamish, Snapped is my guilty pleasure. I still don’t quite understand why this show is on this channel. When I think Oxygen, I think girl power. I guess Snapped is just proof that a woman can do anything a man can do, be it run a Fortune 500 company or kill your husband to collect his insurance policy in order to start your life with your lover.
On WE tv: marathons of Platinum Weddings, Rich Bride Poor Bride, and Bridezilla. I thought that after my wedding, I would no longer watch these shows. That could not be further from the truth. I watch and think “was I as bad as her?” or “one week after her wedding she won’t care about that one missing centerpiece.” These shows, while great fun, beg the question—is Bridezilla real or an industry myth (to be continued…)?
Thursday, May 29, 2008
We're In the System
Ever since we hit the 30-day mark my fiance "Super" has been bugging me to go get our marriage license. Not that I was not interested. It just never seemed a good time to leave my office to make that trip to the county. It didn't help that I was dreading the clerk's office. I imagined long lines of tired couples and clerks who would think of us as just another number.
We were able to find a parking meter which was no small feat at that time of day. After a few minutes of confusion, we found our way to the second floor. No sooner than we signed our names on the clipboard we were being asked to come forward. We each handed over our license and gave a little personal information. No, we are not related. No, we have not been divorced from anyone in the last 30 days. No, we do not owe any back child support. A short time later our clerk, who was actually very pleasant, returned with our license. It was all official looking and Super and I could not help but get a little giddy. Everything was real now. I respectfully disagree with anyone who says that marriage is just a piece of paper. That paper is gorgeous.
We left the building hand in hand with our marriage license tucked away safely. Now let's just hope we don't lose it before it can get to the best man.
Tip: The marriage license laws vary from state to state. Educate yourself on the requirements for obtaining the license, when you should apply for the license, and the waiting period required between obtaining the license and the actual marriage ceremony.
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Saturday, May 24, 2008
Happily Ever After
My fiance "Super" and I went to the wedding site to finalize our plans. A wedding ceremony had ended just moments before we arrived. There were guests making their way through the garden that separated the chapel from the reception hall. We hurried into the office hopeful that no one had seen us in our wrinkled t-shirts and flip flops.
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Where's My Size 7?
The wedding is three weeks away and everyone has questions. The most common question is "are you nervous yet?" To which I confidently respond "NO." Then there is the question about if I have everything ready. Up until a few days ago my response was the same. "I have all the big stuff out of the way, just a few loose ends to tie up." It's true. At this stage of the game, we have the photographer, the DJ and the caterer. The venue is booked, the bridal party is hanging in there, and our families are as ready as we are. The big stuff is under control. It was a "little" shoe issue that nearly sent me over the edge.